Resolving Conflict

Scripture for Jesus' process for resolving conflict with another believer is found in Matthew 18:15-17:

"If another believer sins against you, go privately and point out the fault. If the other person listens and confesses it, you have won that person back. But if you are unsuccessful, take one or two others with you and go back again, so that everything you say may be confirmed by two or three witnesses. If that person still refuses to listen, take your case to the church. If the church decides you are right, but the other person won't accept it, treat that person as a pagan or a corrupt tax collector."

Step 1 - confront the person by yourself

Step 2 - confront him or her with one or two other believers

Step 3 - bring the situation before the church

Step 4 - remove the person from church leadership/fellowship

I think sometimes we skip some of these steps. An individual may be afraid to confront another, even though they are a believer, so goes immediately to step 2. A group of believers, such as deacons, may decide its better not to bring the situation before the entire church, so skips step 3 and goes immediately to step 4.

I think it is very unfortunate when the church is not involved in the decision making. Except for a few, we have no idea why someone in our midst is ostracized and are often told, its of no concern. Doesn't this open up a whole new can of worms?

Love

Love is an attitude, Love is a prayer,

For a soul in sorrow, a heart in despair;

Love is good will for the gain of another

Love suffers long with the fault of a brother.

-- Anonymous

Give to the Winds Your Fears

Words to this song were written by Paul Gerhardt in 1653 and translated by John Wesley in 1739. Here it is:

"Give to the winds your fears;
In hope be undismayed;
God hears your sighs and counts your tears,
God shall lift up your head.
To him commit your griefs.
Your ways put in His hands --
To his sure truth and tender care
Who earth and heav'n commands
Who earth and heav'n commands.

O put your trust in God;
In duty's path go on.
Walk in his strength with faith and hope,
So shall your work be done.
Leave to his sov'reign sway
To choose and to com-mand;
So you shall, faithful, seek His way --
How wise, how strong His hand,
How wise, how stroong His hand!"

Looking back

It's hard to believe, but its been nearly 2 months since I have written anything in my blog. That's not to say I haven't done any journaling. I write every day - about what has gone on or hasn't in my life, about what God has said to me, about anything and everything.

Tonight while looking in my journal, I came across what I wrote Feb. 25. That day was when snow and ice bombarded Iowa and most churches across the state did not hold services.

The Scripture reading that morning was Hebrews 3:12-14. What I gleaned was ..... Today I must listen to His voice. Today I must not harden my heart. I must not turn away from the Lord.

Looking back is good when it is to recall what God has done on our behalf.

Looking ahead is good when we remember God is ever present. When we follow Him and obey His commands, He is always with us.

But when we see only obstacles and react to them out of fear we have taken God out of the picture.

Fear hinders faith, but trust kindles confidence.

Christian vs. Christian

So what does it mean? Christian vs. Born-Again Christian.

To me, a Christian is a follower of Christ. If you are following Christ you are born-again. You turned away from your old self, past mistakes, your sins, and turned to Jesus. If you haven't done that, how can you make any claim to be a Christian?

Unfortunately, however, there are many people who profess to be a Christian simply because they believe in God.

But a Real Christian
an Authenic Christian
a True Christian ....

.... believes in, accepts and follows God the Father
Jesus Christ the Son
and The Holy Spirit

as One.

Power

We have to turn to God, to Jesus, to have the full power to destroy the enemy Satan.

When we do not believe all God says He is and can do and has done, when we do not believe Jesus is the son of God or God himself, we do not have the power.

THOUGHT TO PONDER: ... The Lord decided long ago what now He has caused to happen.

This 'n That

When we trust in what Jesus has done for us, a relationship with God begins and sin no longer has control over us.

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God always stands between the Christian and the enemy.

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Our new life begins the moment we accept Christ died for us. Our sinful self died, was crucifed with Christ, so sin no longer has power over us. Unfortunately, so many of us fail to realize this and continue to allow Satan the controlling hand of influence. If we would only realize that God is the controlling power, not Satan, we would, could live as Christ desires us to live.

Negativity is not part of Christ's legacy, nor is fear of unknowns. Thoughts that you're not good enough, you'll fail, the church by-laws say no, all this and more get in the way of living for Christ and in Him.

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Romans 6:12a in New Living translation says "Do not let sin control the way you live."

v. 13 "...Give yourselves completely to God since you have been given new life. And use your whole body as a tool to do what is right for the glory of God."

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If you say you love God, then why would you not believe Jesus is the son of God? Why would Jesus lie? Why would those he miraculously healed lie?

John 8:42 says "Jesus told them, 'If God were your Father, you would love me, because I have come to you from God.' "

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Individuals born with disabilities .....

John 9:3 says "It was not because of his sins or his parents' sins,' Jesus answered. 'He was born (blind) so the power of God could be seen in him.' "

Seeing and being blind is not always about "sight."

Isaiah 35

When Jerusalem / Zion / The Holy City is restored, all will be rejoicing, singing, abundance of beautiful flowers, green lushness everywhere - the Lord's splendor will abound.

A main road through that once deserted land - called Highway of Holiness:

Only for those who walk in God's ways,
Only the redeemed,
Only those who have been ransomed by the Lord will return to Jerusalem.

My dad's birthday

Today is my dad's birthday - 97 years ago he was born. Nearly a century. So long, so very long, and I didn't know him really at all. The family unit of four lasted until I was 8 and my sister was 5. I did converse with him from time to time over the years -- when I was in my first year of college we talked on the phone. In 1972, the year my sister graduated from high school and I had finished my junior year in college, he died. And that was 35 years ago.

Temptation

My devotion this morning was from Matthew 4: 1-11 and although only three temptations are actually listed, the Devil tempted Jesus way more times in those 40 days and 40 nights.

Temptation ... distracting enticements ... destructive lifestyle

Its more than ... its less than ... drugs and gangs, alcohol and drunken driving, obesity, anorexia, bulima, smoking cigarettes or marijuana or crack cocaine, swearing, robbery/stealing, pornography, abuse -- maiming, killing.

When the powers of darkness comes in like a flood (and it is all around us), the Battle belongs to the Lord!

To conquer sin, nip it in the bud of temptation.

Tiredness

Well, for crying out loud. You get tired, and then you say things you regret. Your bad side shows up. Who you really are comes out in what you say or don't say. Will I never be the person God wants me to be? It's an ongoing growth experience, and I often have failing moments, when my growth is stunted. Such as tonight, after I got home. Worked nearly 2 hours later than usual, and both my husband and I were owly, putting in mildly.

I'm really sorry Lord. The moment I said what I said, I regretted it. Really should think before I act, instead of the other way. Emotions should not get the best of you. But it did, it does. And I am sorry Lord. I can't say it won't happen again. But I can say I don't want it to happen again and I will strive for that not to happen. Please forgive me. Help me to learn from my mistakes and not make them repeatedly. Help me to be your faithful daughter. In your name I pray. Amen.

We can live!

The Lord - He is God,
The mighty King
The Prince of Peace
The Holy One
The Only One

We are but dust - like that found in corners
or underneath beds

Our life span is limited
Tomorrow may or may not come
We are destined to die

But through the grace of the Lord's son Jesus
We can live!

By Cathy Orrick Luders

2.19.2007

Thought for Today

Spending quiet time with God will bring quiet rest from God

Those who truly believe in God also believe in His son Jesus Christ

This week's Bible study is from John 5: 16-47 "Like Father, Like Son."
Question: Why can't I believe in God without accepting Jesus as His Son?
Answer: Because the two are one.

God rested on the seventh day, after creating the world, animals, humans. He rested, yet he still was at work.

That is what we have heard for centuries - we are to rest on the Sabbath, the 7th day. No work. Keep it holy, sacred.

God's intentions were for people to focus on Him, celebrate Him and His work. Not about rules and regulations as the Jewish leaders determined it to be.
Focusing on God / Jesus should be a day-to-day thing, not just one day a week. Because of how the Jews interpreted the law, albeit wrongly, they looked for anything (and everything) that violated that interpretation and declared punishment. They were blinded by self-righteousness and misconceptions of God. Felt God was an entity above all; no one could claim to be equal to Him. When Jesus professed to be His Son, the Jews considered this blasphemy and consequently condemned Him.

So it is really, the Jews who took it upon themselves to sentence Jesus to death - death on the cross - God allowed this to make a point on just who Jesus was and is and is to come. And to show us the way to heaven - only through His son Jesus.

If you believe not in Jesus and what He has done, you do not believe in God Almighty. It is not one without the other. They come together. And when Jesus the human died and rose again and ascended into heaven it was as God designed it. It was God / Jesus who sent to Holy Spirit. His holy spirit, to be with all those who believe(d) in and followe(d) Jesus His Son and the Father.

The Trinity - God the Father, Jesus the Son and the Holy Spirit.

Hard to understand, yet very clear.

We must come to Jesus, not just read the words of Scripture or attend Bible study. If we believe what the words say, if we say we believe the Bible, we must also believe in Jesus and God. They are a package deal. Not one without the other. The Bible points to how we are to live the Christian faith.

The Lord rules

In the future, the future of yesterday, of today, of tomorrow, in the future, as in the present and the past, the Lord rules. Not people. International disputes will be settled by the Lord, not You, not Me. Wars will stop. Alliances made with people from other countries that are out to destroy will meet their own destruction. The Lord rules. The Lord has the final say. Idol worship will end. Idols will be destroyed.

A new study

I received a new translation of the Bible for Christmas - the New Living Bible and on Jan. 15 started a study of Isaiah.

Do not return to your old ways

Being made right with God comes by faith, not by any requirements a church or individual adds. We should not return to our old ways. It is those ways that get us in trouble. We need to look to the Lord for our answers, not to our past. The past is part of who we are, the present is also part of who we are and the future is part of who we are as well. To be complete, we need to be in Christ. With faith in Christ, we have a bridge to a new you, a new me.

It's New Year's Eve

10:38 p.m. Sunday, Dec. 31, 2006. The last day of this year. A year of new beginnnings, new starts, new life is but minutes away. Accept Jesus Christ as your Savior. You don't have to wait until next year. Do it now. Believe He died for you, for your sins. He died so that we may live. Jesus is the Messiah! Jesus is the only way anyone will get to heaven. If you believe you are going to heaven and do not have a personal relationship with Jesus Christ, you are mightily deceived. If you do not know the Lord and die without Him, you will surely know it at your death. But by then it will be too late! Death seals your fate. Don't wait for tomorrow to come. Don't put it off for another time. It is later than you think.

He got an "A"

Jimmy got an "A" in his seminary class "History of Christianity II. We received his papers and grades in the mail today. Hallalujah!

Onward we go

Well, we're not going to have a Korean child in our midst - Josh nor his mother are comfortable with being in a home that has a bunny as a house pet. Perhaps another time, but not now.

Jim did receive a call when we got home this afternoon from a local funeral home requesting his services. So he will meet with the family Tuesday afternoon and the funeral will be on Wednesday morning.

Tomorrow - Sunday - is Christmas Eve Day. Christmas is in the heart, not what's on the ground. But you know, if you grow up with snow at Christmas time you tend to think of it as going hand in hand. But not so really. You also tend to think of families and Christmas going hand in hand. But that's not so either. Traditions we acquire are a result of families ... and friends ... and snow.

But I don't miss the slippery streets of snow or ice. Or unhappy thoughts. My family, albeit small, is enough, and I have Jesus ... and that makes life worthwhile. Jimmy, my husband; BeeJay, our dwarf bunny; me and Jesus.

We hope you have accepted God's gift and will have a

M E R R Y

C H R I S T M A S !!!!!!!!