Do you really desire a future with your spouse?
Do you really desire a growing relationship or do you prefer one that is stagnant?
It is easy to give in to anger.
It is easy to say, “Fine, sorry I bothered.”
It is easy to strike back and make a situation worse than it needs to be.
It is easy to give in to feelings of irritation and lashing out and sulking in a corner like a 2-year-old.
What is hard is turning away from selfishness and realizing how sorrowful we have made our Father in Heaven, how disappointed He is in us.
All of us should turn from sin. We should all see a need to do so. What has sin done for you? Sin doesn't bring you happiness or joy or peace or kindness or thankfulness or love. Sin is ugly and dirty and dark.
Turn away from what is evil; turn to God and build a new life on Him.